Most people in the world find Latin women to be super-hot. They really are. Some of the finest (and obviously famous) include Jennifer Lopez, Deadpool’s Morena Baccarin, Sofia Vergara, Selena Gomez, and of course, Shakira. Sure, this may be the hottest ones in Hollywood, but there are many more in the US and other parts of the world.
Besides looks, Latina women are also known for being talented, intelligent, and sensual. Anyone would understand your obsession with having a Latin wife. But their one biggest hurdle ahead — How to actually get one.
If you’ve never dated Latina girls before, then this new adventure can be pretty scary and impossible to accomplish if you leave in a place where very few exist. However, thanks to the internet’s mail order brides, you can date and marry a South American girl. But since the process is not so simple, we will hold out the light and show you the way. Let’s get started then.
Reasons Why You Should Marry South American Mail Order Bride
Latin women have unique characteristics that distinguish them from the rest. Here are a few reasons why they make an impeccable life partner:
Good at caring for people
Latin ladies are used to taking care of their lovers, family, and friends. It runs in their very nature. However, they expect the same level of care and tenderness-it’s all about the give and take, baby.
Not so deeply rooted in their culture
Culture can be so divisive for two people who hail from different parts of the world. You believe in this, and she believes in something else. Such differences can snap a family apart.
The good thing about south American-raised ladies is that they understand their culture, appreciate their identity but never let such things get in the way of relating with other folks.
They are also more willing to learn other cultures-especially within America and the UK.
Latina girls are passionate about the extremes. If she chooses to love, she does it wholly. If she decides to be a dancer, don’t even dare to convince her otherwise. Whatever their passion is, they religiously commit to it. As you can see, this can be both a blessing and a curse.
Listens but can speak up
An original Latina girl is obedient, honest, candid, attentive, and submissive. However, she still demands an almost equal partnership. When things or conditions don’t seem to favor her, she will boldly speak up.
No one is saying that they lack the good old traditions where men are the head. They still respect that but love someone who can listen and not be an uptight jerk all the time.
You could expect this from an American girl, you know. Also, not so many people can take lightly to being described as sexually adventurous because it kind of represents all the pervasive sex stuff. Nevertheless, when you want to experience true romance, you can always count on them to step up.
Possibly not extensively educated
According to multiple higher education reports, Latinas are among those in possession of fewer higher education credentials. So there is a possibility the Latin wife you are going to get isn’t extensively educated.
This is a good thing because you get to become an important person in her life-lover, her sponsor (in case you’ll pay for her further education) and protector.
Hookup or A Serious Relationship?
The first step when entering the world of mail-order bride dating is deciding if you’re in it for the hookups or if your goal is finding a lasting relationship. If you are looking for a hookup, communicate this from the onset.
If her heart is set on something more and you’re not on the same page, you’ll be setting her up for heartache, and that’s not fair. Conversely, if you want a relationship, spell it out clearly in your profile, and mean it. These intentions should be communicated clearly in the first line of your profile. They should also be discussed one-on-one when you meet.
There is also the issue of kids. It’s becoming common to meet people who have no interest in raising kids. And this problem balloons when the other partner desires to have kids of their own. Now, this is something you must state during your initial online conversations. Don’t wait until you meet in person.
Also, mail order Latin wives can be costly on some platforms. This can turn into a money-wasting endeavor for someone who wants a simple hookup. Nevertheless, if the girl on the other end of the line wishes to go ahead with the idea, then that’s okay. Remember, this will be a long-distance relationship so make it clear from the word go that you are in it for pleasure and company of a hot Latina girl.
Which Site Do I Go With
There are dating sites for anything and anyone in the online dating world today. Whether your preference in a partner is a specific race, age, or sexual orientation—whether you want a relationship, a hookup or a Latina wife—there’s a site out there for you. Choosing the one that works to your advantage can be confusing.
A good tip for choosing you’re a mail order wife site or sites is that if you want a relationship, you’re going to get better-quality profiles and more potential matches on paid dating sites. By signing up on one, you’ve eliminated the vast majority of profiles who aren’t serious about finding a long-lasting relationship.
Conversely, if you’re looking for casual, or hook-ups, mostly sticking to the free sites will get you a larger selection of those looking for the same. Keep in mind that these are vast generalizations. Some people on the free sites are also looking for a relationship.
The problem with free sites (especially for those who are looking for wives) is that you can get conned easily. Anyone can create a website nowadays and enroll the help of a cheap programmer to make a chatbot. Now, once they set up profiles of hot girls, the bot will be communicating with male candidates on the other end. Eventually, they find a way to get to your credit card, and that’s when shit goes “kaboom!”
know you wish to save some bucks along the way and that’s why you are beginning to tolerate the idea of free services. Here is good news for you; some mail order bride solutions out here that list all types of girls including South American wives, don’t charge exorbitantly.
It only takes a couple of dollars up to a hundred to subscribe to a platform’s services. Once you are in, all it takes is a few more bucks (a minimum of around $10) for purchasing credits that you will use to commune with your preferred girl.
The extremely advanced sites offer better services like mobile apps considering we don’t stay next to PCs all the time. Furthermore, they could come with advanced algorithms that pair you with like-minded Latina girls. The algorithm finds your match based on the information you provide-so make it a point to be thorough.
Word of advice: we don’t suggest signing up on multiple platforms at a time because you’ll be too busy, and you’ll not give those good, potential relationship matches, their fair share of attention. Similarly, engaging so many women at ago will make your conversations less effective because you are all over. Only engage a few because they too will be talking to other potential candidates.
Setting Up your Profile
Your picture says a lot about you, and therefore it needs to present your best foot forward. Make sure to post the best of the best. Here are five basic rules to remember when uploading your profile pic:
Definitely No Selfies
Bathroom selfies are the worst. The majority of women will ignore your profile without going further, and it doesn’t matter how chiseled your eight-pack is. If you’re in shape, showing it in other ways is much better. Wearing a fitted shirt will still show that you’re in shape without implying that you’re vain. You should also avoid the super tight and weird-painted T-shirts.
Get as Many Pictures as Possible
If you’re not too social, use the timer on the camera, put in on a stand and jump to the fore for a snap. You can also have a friend of staff mate hold the camera. If you compile many pictures, you’ll be able to pick out a few suitable ones.
Basically, when you’re out and about, you should be doing your best to try to get pictures at every opportunity. You never know when you’re going to get the ones with the right light, the right smile, the right angle in the right location.
Two Winning Pictures Are All You Need
A good shot of your face and another of your full body are great. Preferably have a full-body picture of yourself participating in a hobby. If you don’t know which picture is the best, get your friend’s help.
Beauty beneath Skin
Remember, men are more inclined to put much more emphasis on looks and fitness level, whereas women are more likely to consider things like humor, communication, empathy, compassion, and responsibility along with attractiveness. So since you are on the lookout for the best South American wives, be sure to project you best characters-not just the looks.
Keep Your Pictures Relatively Current
If you’ve had big changes in your appearance, like a hairstyle change or a weight loss or gain, then use more current pics. If your physiques haven’t changed too much, then you can get away with a picture that’s one or two years old. What you don’t want is to show up at your first meet up and look totally different from your photos.
How to Draft An Attractive Profile Description
Crafting an attractive bio is not rocket science, but for some people, words don’t come out so easily. Since this section can determine how your potential Latin dates view you, it has to be done well.
Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to write a good profile that can get you a dazzling Latin wife:
“Hello, my name is (fill it in), and I’m thrilled to meet you. Thank you for looking at my profile.”
“I’m new to this, but I thought I’d have an open mind and give it a try. I’m on here looking for (love, wife..whatever you want)”
“I have a broad range of interests, but my favorites are…” Food, music, travel, active pursuits, and pets are good topics that women love to talk about.
Mention something about your ambitions and aspirations. You want to communicate that you’re a hard worker and a go-getter. Women, in general, want to be with a goal-oriented guy. The key is to show that you’re motivated but humble at the same time. Do not under any circumstances brag. Here’s a sample sentence: “I’m in my third year of my … school/program/degree. Though studying is keeping me on my toes, I’m looking forward to being done so that I can help people.”
This sentence should always end with what you’re looking for in more detail. “I’m looking for someone who’s happy, content, fun, and adventurous.”
Always end by thanking them: “Thank you for reading my profile. I look forward to learning something about you.” Obviously, you don’t want to use this word for word, but use it as a guide.
Using this step-by-step formula will help you to write a thorough profile that won’t lose her interest. Now, since getting the best response matters more, let’s see how you can spruce up your bio by overstating just a bit.
The Level Of Acceptable Exaggeration
THE FIRST THING a woman will look at is your photo-that’s a no brainer. The second is your profile description. In your overall profile—because you’re selling yourself and because it can be competitive—you may feel obliged to exaggerate. That’s okay. However, it is always better to be up-front and honest in your profile.
With that said, there is a degree of exaggeration that is widely accepted in the online dating world, and many men and women will likely apply this margin by becoming a bit younger, a bit fitter, a bit richer, and a bit taller. Be careful not to exaggerate too much though, or she will feel that you are deceiving her and she will want to move on.
The first hurdle is having the message responded to, and the second even bigger hurdle is getting to that first meet up. With that said, if you choose to exaggerate your profile, keep it within ‘the margin’ or you’ll be wasting your time and hers. Also, make sure you clarify any exaggerations once you start dating so that you don’t continue with the relationship under false pretense.
Nice! We are making progress, don’t you think so? Now, since this boat is not offshore yet, how about we talk about what you’ll say? So many people fail in this stage, but we will show you how to go about it so you can get yourself a gorgeous South American wife.
Tips for Sending out an Impactful First Message
Your first and inarguably the most important step is to make your initial message count. Comments like, “I love your smile,” “How are you,” “You’re pretty,” and “You seem nice,” are lame and too common. Why? Because women get these all the time, and they know these are copy and paste messages.
The best thing you can do is to read a woman’s profile and comment on something specific. Take thirty seconds, speed-read her profile, and comment on something that is interesting and specific. An example would be something like, “Hey, Camilla. I see you like listening to vinyl too. Do you have a favorite genre?”
Anyone would appreciate this effort and will be much more likely to respond and engage in a conversation. By finding something in common, you’re tapping into something subliminal in her brain that says, “I have something in common with this guy. I want to check him out.”
By the way, if you are not versatile with any of her favorite activities, then there is nothing to worry about. Simply google it and read exhaustively before engaging her.
Now, if you want to step it up one more level, take something specific about her profile and use humor. Latin women love humor more than you know. Talking about a unique or humorous topic that you saw in her profile will definitely increase your chances of a response. Yes, it takes more time and effort, but again, that’s what is important and necessary.
Offensive Messages: Don’t do it!
Here’s the second important step to your first message: do not mention anything about sex. It’s incredible how many women have reported that men will often send messages like, “May I see your breasts?” Incredible! Most — if not all — mail order wives will simply hit the delete button.
Save the sex talk for the bedroom when you reach that phase in your relationship. Online dating sites are flooded with guys only looking for sex. They’re also flooded with guys who are not taking the dating sites seriously and who use them as a source of entertainment. You might find this funny, but women do not. They find it highly distasteful and a waste of their time. Don’t waste yours as well.
The third important step to remember in your first message is to ask an open-ended question. Your question should require an answer that is more than a yes-or-no response. It should cause her to pause, think, and reply in detail.
Something like, “Do you like to hike?” won’t work. Instead ask, “May I ask what your opinion is on…” and relate that to her profile. Making a statement is one thing, and you can do that in your first sentence, but you should always end your message with a question. Most potential Latin wives will want to answer your question if they are interested.
Wrapping it All Up
Now you know some of the key tips for successful online dating. This should set you on the right course and help you get the best Latin wife.
If everything goes well in the online inboxes, the next step would be to arrange for a mano a mano meet up. If you had a couple of video calls, then you shouldn’t be worried about how she looks.
If you’ll be seeing her for the first time in real life, there are three ways things could go:
Number one: she’s much prettier than in her pictures, and you are thrilled to continue together.
Number two: she looks the same as in the profile, and her character is better or the same as was in the chats.
Number three: she is not as mind-blowing as her profile pic, and her character is not exactly what you had hoped for.
Now, the first two means you got yourself an ideal girl. The last one means you need to go back to the drawing board. Since the deal has changed, it would be nice if you can openly admit that she isn’t what you were looking for and that you won’t mind being good friends. This is the way gentlemen act.
All the best!